Twitter This? I Don’t Think So!
I’ve gotten accustomed to reading a variety of tweets since I became very active with Twitter this past January. In between the obvious marketing blurbs and newsworthy items I have learned a lot about some of my fellow Twitter users including their business trips, flight details, conference highlights and assorted away from home tips.
But it seems that I’m not the only one following tweets so closely. Israel Hyman learned that his tweets may have led to his Mesa, AZ home being robbed this past spring when he and his family journeyed to Kansas City to visit his wife’s family. The police didn’t link his Twitter activity to the crime, but Hyman did based on all of the details he shared leading up to and through the time he was away.
Well, I just returned from a trip but didn’t even use Twitter once when I was away. I like Twitter, but there is something about sharing 140 characters worth of intimate details that turns me off. Okay, maybe you enjoyed your mocha latte this morning which is a harmless and fun statement, but there are times that I find other details twittered about people that I think are best left off of social media sites.
5 Tweets That Should Never See The Light Of Day
To that end, I’ve compiled a list of five things that I believe should never be tweeted let alone mentioned by people online. Sure, free speech is great but why supply more information about yourself than necessary?
Your Trip Details – What Israel Hyman experienced should be fair warning to everyone. People complain about their privacy being eroded due to the internet, but I blame web users for a good deal of the problem – if you like to Twitter about visiting a certain place, light up the Twittersphere with your comments after you have returned. Otherwise, don’t blame anyone if your home is robbed.
Your Family – In many cases, I know the names of Twitter user spouses, their children and in many cases their pet’s name. I get uncomfortable when family is mentioned beyond generalized terms for the simple reason that there is bound to be someone, somewhere who would love to have that information, but for all of the wrong reasons. Maybe I’ve watch to much of “America’s Most Wanted” which would explain my thinking, but there are enough cyber creeps out there who could do you or your family members real harm.
Company Problems – A sure way to get fired is to tweet about your employer, a client or someone else you have a working relationship with in a negative light. I’ve seen it done and wonder what point the twitter user was making. Whether the company caught the tweet or not I don’t know, but once something has been tweeted, it can be dug up forevermore. Find another way to vent!
Hashtag Spam – I haven’t seen it too often but once in awhile someone gets the brilliant idea that hashtag (#hashtag) spamming is a good idea. Gee, if you’re trying to sell a product unrelated to iPhones then why would you use that hashtag? Socialmediatoday caught a furniture company doing this very thing – I got to believe that the company lost customers as well as respect thanks to this practice.
Avoid Flame Wars – Tweeting is micro-blogging so it stands to reason that just like commenting on a blog, leaving comments on tweets makes perfect sense. But, unlike a blog which has a limited audience, tweets can be read by anyone, anywhere. So, if you plan on having it out with someone on Twitter, be forewarned that your tweet conversation can be followed and monitored by everyone. Show some restraint, avoid calling people names too.
Add Your Mis-Tweets Too!
I’m sure that there are other things that shouldn’t be added to Twitter, but I’ll keep these “fab five” on my list. If you want to add one or more of what I call “mis-tweets”, feel free to hit the reply button and let us discuss the matter!

By LarryJackson, July 14, 2009 @ 8:59 pm
Good article, Matt. I agree with all of your “fab five” and would add one more that has to do with family. I don’t think it would be a good idea to be tweeting about family problems. Any chance of reconciliation could very well be destroyed if they are aired in the very public forum of Twitter.
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By Lidian, July 15, 2009 @ 1:59 pm
I totally, totally agree! I like Twitter as a supplement to my blogs, i.e. a mini blog, very slightly more personal than my blogs (a history and a humor blog)…The impersonal-personal, if you will. It is far too easy to share far too much personal info these days.
By Mechanic Mark, July 15, 2009 @ 7:27 pm
Hi Matt: I follow quite a few people that use web applications to spin and retweet there messages. Sometimes these apps malfunction and spam the system. In my opinion you should avoid the droves of apps and keep your tweets the way they were originally intended. I was big into the Twitter thing but i think it’s starting to wear off.
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By Vaillant Poznan, July 16, 2009 @ 4:01 am
Oh come on! Flamewars are awesome! I mean as a bystander I love them. Personaly don’t have time to argue on the internet but the creativity some people show during flamewars are truly hilarious!
By Matthew C. Keegan, July 16, 2009 @ 6:17 am
Mark, I agree! I’m trying to be careful to use my tweets in the right way, but I know that I have spammed the tweetosphere several times which isn’t good. Some of the apps make it easier to do that which means that our stuff can be tweeted over and over and over again. Not good for tweet readers!
By Matthew C. Keegan, July 16, 2009 @ 6:18 am
Vaillant — Some flame wars are amusing while others are downright a waste of everyone’s time. The worst kind are those wars where two or more people hijack a thread for their argument. Not good!
By markus, July 18, 2009 @ 10:31 pm
very good Mathew you have provided a good info about the twitter but i have a bad new sfor it the twitter in the Asian area is hacked by lots of hackers & that too is with the old hacking trick the twitter officials should check their security of the site!
By wyjazdy studenckie, July 20, 2009 @ 3:30 am
I think those problems are casual for all social networting websites of any kind. If You write about going out of home for 3 weeks and someone will see that You are, it’s obvious that someone could try to use that useful tip and gain some cash from selling stuff from Your empty house. As far as I think, it is not the site problem, but (like You said) the guilt lies on the side of the users giving information without thinking about the possible consequences.
By manuel, July 20, 2009 @ 5:20 am
You should not popularize your quarrels and conflicts. You should always try to popularize your good points and not bad ones.
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